How To Love Me & Deal Breakers

This blog post was inspired by Shanboody

How to love me

  • Be persistent & consistent
    • Show me you are worth my time and effort through your time and effort
  • Reciprocate my affection
    • I am a very physically affectionate person and love when I get it in return
  • Keep an open line of honest communication
    • I have no issue expressing myself or confronting an issue. I don’t like not knowing if something bothers you, I’d like to know so I can prevent it from happening again. If something pleases you I’ll do it more often.
  • Encourage my endeavours
    • I need to know that no matter what I’ll always have your support. Show some interest in my interests because you’re interested in me.
  • Actually listen when I speak ( be attentive)
    • Engage in meaningful conversations with me. Allow me into your thought process. I love when someone does something based on a conversation they had with me. It lets me know that they care and are actually listening to understand me and not just to respond.
  • Trust me
    • Everyone goes through heartache and everyone has had their trust broken. If I haven’t given you a reason not to, you should trust me. Trust that I’d never do anything to hurt you.
  • Fight for me
    • When things get rocky don’t give up
    • When I get emotional or crabby don’t dismiss me or my emotions
    • Fight for me, fight to stay with me. Let me know you’re in this for the long haul and you see a future with me.

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Deal breakers

  • Political views that oppose mine
    • There’s no way we could see eye-to-eye on anything if we’re opposed in political views
  • Lack ability to hold an intellectual conversation
    • I need someone that can challenge me, make me question theories.
  • Easily discouraged
    • Once you set out on a certain path  to obtain something, a minor setback shouldn’t be able to cause you to completely change course.

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